FAQ Help Center

Registration and Memberships:

Our system does not reveal your personal contact details or email address to other members. Members will only know you by your username and photo and whatever info you decide to include in your profile.

Even providing your actual birthdate when signing up is never revealed to other members, this is only used by our system for calculating your age in your profile.

It's at your discretion and totally up to you to decide if you want to give a member any personal info about yourself. We don't have any control over what members decide to share privately among themselves.

Many E-mail services and Internet Service Providers (ISP) such as AOL, Yahoo, and Hotmail have SPAM filters to try and prevent mass amounts of spam and junk e-mail from be delivered. Unfortunately, these filters will often delay or entirely block e-mails that you wish to receive unless you add the sender to your email contact list or address book.

If you don't receive the confirmation email within 15 minutes, try checking through your spam, junk or bulk email boxes in your online web based email account.

Try adding our domain to your Email Contact List as this will often force your email provider to release emails from our site.

You can also have your confirmation email resent.
Try logging with the username and password that you used when you signed up. Since your account hasn't be activated yet you will be taken to a page telling you need to activate your account using the link provided in the confirmation email that was sent to your email address. You'll also be provided with a link to resend the email. Before resending the confirmation be sure you have added us to your email contact list to ensure you receive the confirmation email.

Also make sure your online inbox isn't full, this can also be a common reason for not receiving emails.

Currently we are not charging for memberships.

My Account and Profile:

In the "My Account" menu, click "Profile Manager", click the "edit" link for the category that contains the information you want to edit.

You cannot change your username because this is a piece of critical information that uniquely identifies you in our system and throughout the site. Your username gets cached and embedded in the system's blog posts, comments, photos, messages, basically everywhere, making it extremely difficult to change.

You however can change your password or email address at anytime by clicking "My Settings" in your "My Account" menu.

Be sure to post some photos in your profile. Research shows that profiles with photos are 10 times more likely to receive responses.

Create and write blogs and post comments in other member's blogs - this will increase your profile awareness on the site. The more involved you are on the site, the more likely you will be noticed!

Create an interesting profile, fill in as many fields as you can, let other members know a bit about you.

Take action!
Don't be afraid to make the first move, send some messages to members.

Yes ladies, this means you as well, it's very competitive out there these days, don't let all the potential good ones get away. Maybe some of the men you find interesting or appealing are simply passing over your profile because they feel they just don't measure up to what you're seeking and would be thrilled to hear from you.

You can't just create a profile with a couple photos then expect to sit back and wait for responses to come rolling in. To be successful at meeting people or finding love you have to mingle a bit and make others aware you are alive and interested.

In the "My Account" menu, click "My Settings", scroll to the bottom of the page to the "Cancel your account" section.

Your username and password are case-sensitive, please make sure you input them correctly.

If you are unsure or forgot your username or password just click the "Lost Password" link located at the top of the page and enter the email address that you registered with on our site and an email will be sent that contains instructions and a link to reset your password.

For security reasons we don't send passwords, only your username and a link if you want to re-set (change) your password.

Your browser security settings could be set too high. You have to allow the site to use cookies, otherwise it will not work. Please make sure you have cookies enabled in your browser. You'll need to read your browser's help on how to enable cookies. The process is similar on most browsers.


Members are allowed up to 36 photos in their profile photo gallery.

Maximum allowed file size is 150kb per photo. Photos should be in JPEG (.jpg) format with a maximum width of about 600 pixels.

By making photos "private", only members that you are friends with are allowed to access and view each other's private photos.

You can check to make a photo "private" when you upload a photo, or you can make a photo "private" later on by editing a photo.


Blogs are basically a personal journal that are typically used for publishing news and articles or for expressing your opinions or observations about a subject.

Other members can read your blogs and join in by commenting or expressing their own opinions about the topic, often spawning lively discussions. In a way blogs can be considered like each member having their own personal mini forum where they are in total control of the topics, including moderating by removing inappropriate comments.

Don't ignore this powerful tool - writing blogs expands on your profile and can drastically increase the odds of you being noticed on the site, and is a great way for people to get to know you better.

Post comments in other member's blogs - this will also increase your profile awareness on the site. The more involved you are on the site, the more you will be noticed!

Click on the "My Blogs" link in your "My Account" menu. Your blog manager provides some basic instructions on how to create and manage blogs.